That 4 Letter Word

I do want a woman to love. I do want candle lit dinners and walks on the beach. I want heated conversations on fascinating topics and shared movie and theatre experiences. I want all of those things and more. But mostly, at times, I just want to f**k. The...

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Trolls

Not particularly linked with the MeetMe app, although that did give me a taste, but it occurs to me that, laying myself open like this there is sure to be an army of men making comments about what a sad loser I am. “Ha, ha, sado can’t get a girl” and...

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A Date

Actually had a date. Disaster would be overplaying it. Disappointing would be the best description. Disappointing in that she just didn’t “light my fire” so to speak. But also disappointing because I didn’t sparkle myself. We actually met at my first singles night. I didn’t really put too much...

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Overthinking?

I have high hopes for this blog. That it will reach a wide audience. But last night in bed I started thinking, what if it gets TOO successful? what if I get press attention and they start publishing pictures of me? I’ve always had an aversion to fame. Well, maybe...

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A Dawning Realisation

I realised something tonight. I was doing my usual thing; accosting women, chatting to them, entertaining them and generally being witty. And gradually, other men would come over and join in. And slowly,  slowly I was eased onto the sidelines.  So I joined another pair of ladies only to...

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Singles Night Again

It sucks the life out of you. You hope, but somehow it feels futile. You know things will never get better if you DON’T try, but you know that things are likely to get WORSE with every failure. You want to run home and hide under the quilt until the...

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Meet Me or Waste My Time?

This MeetMe app is not just a waste of time. It’s positively annoying. I’m seriously trying to make some friends to hang out with and for the most part all I seem to speak to are morons. I think one was trying to rent out prostitutes to me. Others just seem...

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Meet Me

Started using an app called “MeetMe”. It’s supposedly for finding platonic friends which I thought would be a good idea for my singles nights. At least I won’t be left standing about on my own looking like a dick. And if when a group of girls subdivides to break off...

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Success?

I did meet one girl at a singles night. We were chatting for ages and it was certainly an interesting conversation. But a lot of it was quite political and gradually I started to think that maybe this girl was slightly to the right of Hitler. She certainly seemed to...

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BFFs?

Well, maybe that’s an overstatement. But a number of my exes are still my friends. None of them live locally so we don’t hang out down the pub, but we still chat by email or Facebook occasionally. The way I see it, even though you decided that you’re not...

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