Monthly Archives: April 2017

Speedy Gonzalez – Speed Dating

I tried this 3 times. I thought it went well. I had lots of fun conversations, but waaaaaaaaay too short. How the hell are you supposed to get to know anyone in 4 minutes? You get cut off in mid conversation and sometimes it’s quite annoying. Personally, I only...

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Into the Wild, Blue Yonder

After a while, although it had not produced a girlfriend, some of the responses did get me feeling more motivated and my living situation did too (sorry mum) and so I returned to something else I had done before (although not with massive success); approaching strangers in the street....

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More Online Dating

Obviously, internet dating had changed (see previous post). So I went seeking “expert” advice and found lots of “pick up experts” and “dating coaches” who gave lots of advice and guidance on how to write a profile and messages. Initially, it was a little false. I was using someone...

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Home, Sweet Home

I arrived back in the UK almost 6 months ago, full of hope and optimism. I experienced so much of life travelling the world and made lots of friends. I almost never felt lonely and I had all kinds of plans for how to get back into life in...

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What is Wrong with Me?

I am writing this diary regarding my recent attempts to find a girlfriend. I have had a number of long-term relationships previously, and then went travelling for a few years. Since I returned, I am finding it almost impossible to actually find a girlfriend leading me to ask the...

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